New Year, New Habits: Re-Engaging Families and Students After Winter Break

Stefanie Gilary
December 10, 2025

Winter break offers a much-needed pause for students, families, and educators, but it also brings a challenging attendance moment, with disrupted routines and a spike in absences.

But the new year also gives schools something powerful to work with: a natural reset. Families are already thinking about fresh starts, new goals, and better habits. When districts lean into this mindset, they can help students return energized and stay engaged through spring.

Before you head out for the holiday break, consider how you can make the most of the powerful but brief “new year, new me” window and re-establish strong attendance momentum in the new year.

Begin with Reconnection 

For many students, especially those who struggled with attendance in the fall, the return to school after break can feel daunting. But by prioritizing strong relationships and a welcoming environment, students can then ease back into academic growth and rigor. 

Some connection-building activities may include:

  • Host short welcome back in-school events that nurture belonging, culture, and community.
  • Share warm messaging with families before break begins reminding them of when school restarts, and a friendly reminder the night before the first day back acknowledging how hard restarts can be and that the team is here to help.

Why it works:
A sense of belonging is one of the strongest predictors of student success. When students feel seen and welcomed, they’re more likely to show up and thrive.

Proactively Help Rebuild Routines 

After two weeks of flexible schedules and festivities (cookies for breakfast anyone?) even the best of us need a minute to reestablish routines around good sleep hygiene and morning logistics. Your families are no exception, and strategic communication can help rebuild a routine for success.  Families often know what they should do, but appreciate clear, manageable steps to get started.This may include:

  • Simple “Back-to-School Routine Checklist” with reminders about sleep schedules, transportation plans, and morning prep.
  • Concise, actionable tips for getting back on track. Behavioral science shows that families are more likely to engage with short, specific guidance.
  • Brief, encouraging text messages or emails acknowledging the challenge: “We know getting back into a routine is tough. Thank you for helping your student(s) start strong this year!”

Celebrate Early Wins to Build Momentum

With fresh start energy permeating through the air, January is a perfect moment to leverage positive streak messaging. When students earn recognition for all wins, big and small, whether that’s showing up every day for a week or reestablishing progress after a rough patch, they feel motivated to keep the habit going. Behavioral reinforcement helps turn good intentions into sustained habits, especially when students and families see their progress celebrated.

Leverage positive messaging to:
  • Celebrate improvement and send encouraging messages when a student’s attendance improves week over week or month over month.
  • Recognize streaks and acknowledge students for showing up several days in a row, reinforcing positive behavior.
  • Send supportive, personalized texts or notes home when students return after a long absence.
  • Give classroom- or school-level shout-outs to reinforce community-wide effort.

Use Data to Spot Students Who Need a Gentle Nudge

Spotting emergent attendance patterns can help you get ahead before absences become further entrenched. By leaning on robust attendance dashboards, districts can quickly identify students who may already be “vacation extenders” or who have early signs of disengagement. Early, supportive outreach prevents small attendance issues from turning into months of missed learning.

Strong attendance data can help you:

  • Track daily, weekly, and monthly attendance to catch dips early.
  • Flag students with pattern-based attendance concerns, not just chronic absenteeism thresholds.
  • Coordinate outreach with student services, counselors, and family engagement teams for early, compassionate intervention.
Re-Engage Families Through Strategic, Supportive Communication

Families want students to succeed, but many are juggling real challenges after the holidays, which can be a costly and exhausting time of year. This is the moment to over-communicate with empathy, clarity, and partnership. Supportive communication increases family engagement and attendance without increasing staff workload, especially when messages are automated, personalized, and aligned to district priorities.

Messages home should be:

  • Positive: Focus on success, not guilt.
  • Predictable: Share consistent reminders about school events, schedules, and supports.
  • Personalized: Use student names, recognize streaks, and include school-specific details.
  • Actionable: Offer concrete next steps families can take to help students return strong.

Strengthen Staff Capacity With Ongoing Professional Learning Opportunities

Educators can also harness the fresh start effect by leaning in to tools and training that help them build relationships and communicate effectively with families. This doesn’t have to be lengthy days devoted to professional learning, but even action packed half hours on a regular basis that provide new tips and strategies to incorporate in their daily work can be beneficial. When staff feel prepared and supported, students and families feel the difference.

Topics that resonate in January include:

  • Relationship-based attendance strategies
  • Family partnership best practices
  • Conducting supportive, non-punitive attendance conversations
  • Recognizing and responding to early disengagement signals

Are you ready for a transformative 2026?

Winter break may disrupt routines, but it also opens the door to renewed energy, clearer goals, and stronger habits. With thoughtful communication, data-driven insight, and community-centered strategies, districts can turn January into a powerful launchpad for spring success.

If you’d like help strengthening your district’s attendance communications, using data to target supports, or equipping staff with research-backed strategies, our team is here to help.

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